Monday, 10 November 2014

An interesting conversation between my Mind and my Stomach... Enjoy!

Mind: Its 6:15 pm, u r free now. Time for yoga and meditation.
Stomach: wait! What? Are you f****** serious dude. M hungry!
Mind: you are hungry after every two hours. What can i expect from you, you tummy!
Stomach: Whatever!
Mind: No not there. thats a street hot dog loaded with all sorts of germs!
Stomach: Dont worry I have juices with 7.6 pH. so i will burn them to ashes.
Mind: C'mmon you are Food Safety Officer, what will others think if they saw you eating street food.
Stomach: Who is Food Safety Officer?
Mind: YOU!
Stomach: Food Safety Officer dies once he lives office. So stop bugging me.
Mind: But think of your size. Our parents are looking girls for you to get married. Who will marry to a fat government fix salaried guy?
Stomach: Well i know Adnan Sami and he is fat and he is married and he is successful. You also know Ram Kapoor Right?
Mind: Phew... You are impossible. You are slave of your desire to eat. You will never care for rest of the body. So selfish you are!
Stomach: Will you stop cribbing? Will you allow me to enjoy cheese burger?
Mind: If you will not stop eating outside food, your thoughts will go haywire.
Stomach: Dude thinking is your job, not mine! So mind your business!
Mind: Because of you eating all nonsense junk, I have to keep processing the tsunami of thoughts, please have some pity on me! 
Stomach: I m done with Cheese hot dog! Who are you talking to?

BURRRRRRRPPPPPP!!!




Wednesday, 2 May 2012

Changing Relations !!!

It is really wonderful to notice how your relations with people who at one point of time seems like nobody to you becomes so close so dear to you that you become addicted to their company, their advice, their presence.

Something like above even happened to me. Before a year and half or so I met one pretty babelious girl at my training institute. I had a huge crush on her on first day itself. Her lovely girly attitude caught my heart and I began dreaming of her. Gradually with my funny punch lines, I caught her attention and we were soon acquainted to each other (not friends yet). I was hitting on her madly but she was too smart to catch my intentions and thus asked me to STOP.

I eventually moved on to other girl... had good time with her... broke off with her as we all know story goes on and on.

But the girl i talked about in second paragraph, all of sudden, came back to my life. We started meeting, talking, chatting... But then something terrible happened which I had never wished. She told me one day that she is engaged. Land under my feet was slipping and I was there standing dumb... with no clue what to do. I realized I loved her, I realized I was willing to spend rest of my life with her, I realized YES SHE IS THE ONE.

She considered me a good friend and I was considering her more than good friend and this is where all the problems in the world starts. A guy's mind always thinks why is he loving her so much though he know that the girl belongs to someone else. Why his heart is not ready to accept that he is alone again? Why his mind is not letting her memories go? We shared the most amazing moments of life with each other. Memories on which in future if we reflect upon brings a huge smile on our face. But I was so desperate to make her mine that I started loosing my insanity and started creating troubles for her. My non-acceptance of her situation became tolerance for her and reason for madness to me. But I am amazed how beautifully she had handled my distorted mind and my plight. She was always the one who supported me in bad times, inspired me in bad times, held me in bad times so that i don't fall.

I confused her care for me as her love and again got more and more miserable. We guys never think that there can be something more than love between a guy and girl. We never realize that beautiful things and people are never to be possessed. I realized that very late but fortunate to at least have realized. By forcing her into relationship with me, I was making her unhappy but by letting her go... I realized I am free and she is also happy.

I lost my love but gained something far more precious... that is her friendship. I am honored to be part of her life now. I am grateful to God for gifting me such a wonderful person. I have never seen God in my entire life but if God existed he would be no different than my friend. I am blessed first to be a stranger to her, then a one-side lover of hers and now a sweet friend of hers.

I dedicate this article to my friend who made my life so beautiful. I am highly indebted to you. Heartily thanks for all your care, all your advices, all your anger, all your winks, all your stupidity, all your tolerance, all your acceptance, all you faith in me...Love you.

Tuesday, 24 April 2012

CHANGE... from picometric to telescopic view


The only thing that does not change is CHANGE. Everything you see around changes. Things they born, grow, wither and die. This process is very basic in nature. Nothing in this universe can be expelled from this truth. 

We are quite aware of the three shaktis that is the heart of entire universe. Brahma shakti which creates, Vishnu shakti which maintains and Shiva shakti which destroys or in other way transforms. As I had wrote in my previous post that everything changes but there is something which does not change. And this something very unique, much centered, which does not change with time, which is eternal. From an atom to entire galaxy, the same principle works.

Let us go at picometer level and discover what happens. An atom consist of protons, neutrons and quarks which make up the nucleus while the electrons move around the nucleus in defined pathway called orbital. During a chemical reaction, the electrons are either lost or gained but the contents of nucleus remains the same. They remain eternal, does not change during chemical reaction. They just witness the loss and gain of electron. This was at picometric cosmos level.
 
Now let us zoom out and go to Hubble's telescope level that is on planetary level. In this case, the sun remains stationary at it’s position. The planets revolve around it. The stars are born and disappear in space after its defined life time. The planets orbit around sun as electrons orbit around the nucleus. Sun witnesses the changes occurring in space as the nucleus witnesses the changes occurring around it.

We, human beings are somewhere between these two extremes and we also follow the same sciences which an atom and a solar system follows. Everything around us keeps on changing. Some at greater pace and some like turtle’s race. From your birth itself, your body keeps changing each second, with every breath, the change is there but it goes unnoticed as subtle event. People around us keep on changing. When we are small, we have grandparents with us. When we grow up, they die, they disappear. Our school changes, uniform changes, childhood friend changes, syllabus changes, college changes, tuition changes, teacher changes, our crush changes, our love changes, our passion changes, our parents grow old, our friend changes, our sex partner changes, our prayer changes, our mood changes, we marry and our life partner and her relatives add up in our life, we have children of our own, our job changes, salary changes, scooter changes, hair color changes, vitality changes, wrinkles start appearing, our state of health changes and finally we die. After a long series of changes, we ultimately die and based on our karma, come to earth again and repeat the entire process. 

 

But there is one thing which observes the process of changes. It remains unchanged just a nucleus in an atom and sun in solar system. They witness the changes occurring. The very substance which goes unchanged is what we call the Self. In case of solar system, sun is Self, in case of an atom, nucleus is Self. This Self if recognized or realized becomes reason of immense joy. This unchanged particle is also called GOD particle. It is the observer of entire dance of maya. It knows everything but the dark light of ignorance has made it impossible to access. The purpose of one’s life is to dive out of the ignorance sea and jump into indestructible joy by realizing one’s Self. This is the very essence of spirituality.