Saturday, 31 March 2012

The poem says how I want to spend my entire life with you. Please go through every line because I really meant them....

Even if we fight with each other, we fall fighting on each other,
to dominate each other till the last breathe, only we two will persist.

Whatever you want to say...say it, whatever you want to do... do it,
to find each other's spectacles and walking stick in our old age, only we two will persist.

If you get angry... I will keep quiet, If I get angry... you will keep quite,
To pamper each other playful wishes till the last breath, only we two will persist.

When your sight will fade and your memory lost,
To find each other in each other, only we two will persist.

When keens will pain and spine bent,
To cut each other's foot nails, only we two will persist.

My reports are normal, I am all right,
To lie each other in such lovely way, only we two will persist.

When our breathe will end and will we depart,
To forgive and love each other, only we two will persist.

With lots of Love....

Friday, 30 March 2012

Today I am bringing to you an interesting story told by Khurshed Batliwala popularly know as Bawa. The story is about the intensity of Love which Radha had for Krishna. When I look at my feeling for my special, I feel very ashamed of what I call love. This story taught me to love and will be alive in my heart as far as I keep breathing.

Here is the original story as it is:

Much after Vrindavan, when Krishna was relaxing with his many wives, Rukmini his head wife threw a tantrum... All the time i hear Radhe Krishna, Radhe Govind... she is not even married to you... how come no one sings about Rukmini, or for that matter any of the other of your wives?! Whats wrong with us?... etc, etc :)

Krishna listened patiently and then suddenly held his head and complained of a head ache. Now Rukmini felt sorry, and became all loving and docile again... but the head ache refused to go... Each wife had her own suggestion about what to do... some pressed feet, others did some aroma therapy, still others made pastes from herbs... 16000+ cures were presented, none worked, his head ache only grew worse...

Narada the travelling Muni then made an appearance (Besides being a Muni, he was also something of a doctor) and he examined Krishna, felt his pulse, etc and then proclaimed that Krishna was suffering from a very rare type of a headache... one that could only be cured by a Beloved of Krishna putting his or her foot on Krishna's head... Krishna was in bed moaning softly, and the wives and the courtiers of the palace had a conference... They were all beloved of Krishna, but none dared to put their foot on the Lord's head, doing so would mean an eternity in Hell! and they were pondering and wondering what to do...

... and the news reached Radha in Vrindavan about Krishna's ill health and she rushed to his palace and when appraised of everything, asked immidiately to be taken to Krishna, she would happily put her foot on His head... Rukmini, the other wives and the rest of the palace was aghast at her quick decision... Rukmini herself told her that if she Radha did that, she would burn in hell forever...


If my Lord gets even one second of relief from his pain, then i will willingly go to hell forever said Radha as she ran to her Krishna and put her foot on his head, curing Him completely...

An abashed Rukmini along with all the other wives touched Radha's feet and realised how deep her love for Krishna was... and why people for centuries to come will sing Radhe Krishna!!

.......... If you consider your partner as Krishna then love him/her like Radha, NO matter what the world around you say because the best part of opinions is that they keep changing. But the love which you have for that person never change because you yourself are love. If you are not love then how can you give love to others. If the thing which is not with you, how can you give it to others. Let us commit yourself to love people with such an intensity. If not all, at least we can love one person so madly, so crazily, so whole heartedly that even God wishes to take birth in human body and receive love from you.

Love is very precious feeling that we can experience. It is more addictive than any weed or alcohol. It is not for people who believes in sanity. It is epitome of craziness and liveliness. Sane people cannot fall in love coz they feel very chicken to face the consequences of broken heart. But can you separate the head and tail of same coin? If you pursue for happiness, the sorrow will come hidden behind it. Embrace both or be ready to be called living ghost !!!

Thank you. 

Thursday, 29 March 2012

16 to 24 years of age. What a time to be alive. You get to enjoy the emotional roller coaster. I believe, that after 24 years of age, after passing through number of break ups, after listening to heart breaking sad songs in dim lights of room, after making rings of cigarette puffs in memory of separated girlfriends, a guy like me hardly wishes to live.

What an excitement this age gives. What a vibrancy it has. Totally awesome.

Today I wish to write on something I don't know what to title it. I am living with some of the most deadliest but most beautiful days of my life with a girl. To ease the tangles of my relationship, I often spend time to understand her. But my efforts stay futile. Even if you know her from past considerable amount of days, you find her beyond your understanding and which is the reason why you keep on holding to her.

Life becomes so beautiful when you know that you have one person on planet who cares for you. I find myself very fortunate if I will be able to bring a cute smile on her face daily. It feels so blissed to become a reason of someone's smile . But what if that person is never destined to be yours?

What would you do? Number one, Stop talking to her! If you stop talking to her, who will be at loss? Of course you. You will miss those beautiful moments of life which fills your life with immense joy. Number two, You will start ignoring? But by ignoring, you mean you don't want to notice them. Again, your wish not to notice them itself becomes a reason to remember them. Number three, cut all the relationship with her. Cutting relationship with someone whom you consider your lifeline... Will you be able to live without them? Number four, commit suicide. Finishing your self will definitely end your lovely turmoil but think of the person who has tolerated your craziness for such a long time, what will she feel? If you really love her, then would you wish to give her such an enormous pain of your absence.

A broken heart always comes up with such a juvenile inner battle. But this battle is unavoidable. The mighty hearts are always held in slender chain.  

Have we ever understood what your partner wants from you? Guys like me even fail to know what the opposite person wants. In a relationship, we always exploit the other person for satisfying your ego. Can't we think in the other way around. Can't we live just because she wants us to be at their side. Can't we make a simple choice between the girl being with you...unhappy and girl being with someone else and remaining happy. Why does love always want, want and want? Why is it so possessive? Why our heart is too small that the person inside is barely able to breathe?

I know it takes great courage to see your girl with other guy but if she is happy does anything else matter? What is more important your ego satisfaction of having her or her happiness? Love is to give. To let go what is most lovely to you, it takes courage. To imagine her in bed with someone needs courage. Accepting that the girl who cares of someone else more than she does for you, needs courage. To imagine that your life is no more colorful in her absence needs courage. To open your eyes without memories in your mind needs courage. To hope and live knowing that she will never be yours need courage.

thank you. bless me with the courage !!!

Wednesday, 21 March 2012

Devdutt Pattanaik, awesome orator, tells about the role of mythology in our business system. Great insight I must say...

Here is the link of the video:

http://www.ted.com/talks/devdutt_pattanaik.html?source=facebook#.T2mvONpk9p1.facebook

Must see video I must admit.
Good Evening.

This is my first blog. I am excited and nervous to write. There are lot many things to share to the entire web universe.

I am Research Scientist and also an Art of Living Volunteer. I had started writing blog with numerous thoughts in my mind, but when I am actually writing, it is completely blank.

Anyways, I wish I next attempt will be better. :)